Virgin Mother and Second Adam

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Miriam: Virgin Mother and Second Adam Triptychs
Bruce Herman
Oil on wooden panel with silver and gold leaf
Permanent installation–Monastery of San Paolo, Orvieto, Italy

About the Art 
Bruce Herman’s paintings—in the traditional form of two large altarpieces—constitute a sustained reflection on the life of the Virgin Mary from the time of her “Yes” to God at the Annunciation to the fulfillment of this “sword that will pierce your soul” at her Son’s Crucifixion. Critic Rachel Smith states, ”The two triptychs represent the dual paths of discipleship that Mary exemplifies: the via activa, where Mary is active participant called to be a key instrument in God’s most critical work and the via contemplative, where Mary is a reflective witness pondering the implications of God’s audacious plan.” The theme of incarnation and Herman’s interplay between the traditional biblical narrative of scripture juxtaposed with a modern abstract sensibility make these works unique.

Bruce Herman was an art professor at Gordon College when I attended, and I was personally blessed by many of his pieces on display in the campus art galleries and including in worship events.

The comments below (as well as the image) was taken from The Advent Project of Biola University Center for Christianity Culture & the Arts

http://ccca.biola.edu/advent/

As I view Bruce Herman’s Virgin Mother and The Second Adam I am captured by two images – vessels and bearing. Mary was the chosen vessel to bring the Son of God into the world, yet she was a willing vessel – one who said “yes” to God. She was the chosen vessel, yet she chose to be the vessel. She was willing to bear Him in the pain, fear, and loneliness of childbirth, a foreshadowing of His bearing our sin on the cross. In His example, we are called to bear the cross and the burdens of others. I am struck by the placement of Mary’s arms and hands in these paintings. In one image she has her hand on her belly indicating her pregnancy and expectancy for birth. In another she is contemplating two vessels, and in yet another she is grasping her throat perhaps in a way to contain her sadness at seeing her son on the cross.

What’s wrong with this Christmas list?

(Click on the link below to see the list)

http://www.imdb.com/list/Uqan8j7UpHQ/

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I will tell you!

Besides the glaring fact that Sherlock Holmes is NOT a Christmas movie….(I am open on Die Hard though)

This list from IMD is a typical list of top Christmas movies, similar to any you may find. Other similar lists including “top grossing” Christmas movies, etc..

The word “wrong” may have been a feeble attempt to stir the pot a bit….

This list is certainly “telling” just how far culture and society has indeed moved away from the true meaning of Christmas. I have watched every one of these top 25 Christmas movies, and to my recollection only 3 of them state the actual meaning of Christmas, with The Nativity depicting the historical accuracy and significance of this most beloved holiday.

Santa Clause, of course, is the main character in the vast majority of these movies, with Jesus taking a back seat (with the exception of Little Drummer Boy, A Charlie Brown Christmas and The Nativity…and hey at least that movie made it to #7)

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It’s a Wonderful Life and A Christmas Carol at least get to the meaning of giving, love, faith and angels (in some regards)

In youth group this past week we discussed the question “Is Christmas still a Christian holiday”.  The majority of people who celebrate do not attend any church service or mass, nor participate in Advent or read the Biblical story.

Moreover, an increasing number of non-Christian countries are beginning to celebrate Christmas including Muslim and Hindu countries.  While I am in favor of that (in theory) I have been told from friends who live there that the commercial interests and American culture has infiltrated their countries, much to the display of the traditionalists.  Santa, Rudolf, colorful lights, trees, presents, and well…more gift giving has won the day and America is to thank.  But nowhere, literally nowhere in these cultures does the story of Jesus’ birth and theological impact of the incarnation ever make it into the celebration…thus proving (in some way) that Christmas is no longer a Christian holiday.

Perhaps this is good as the commercialism and consumerism of the holiday (as celebrated by Americans at least) has moved in stark contrast to the ideals of that first Christmas and Jesus’ message “It is better to give than to receive.”

Let me be honest for a moment.

I struggle with this because as my two boys grow up, there is a huge part of me that wants them to be just as excited with Santa, Rudolph, Frosty and opening shiny boxes on Christmas Day as I was.  I do not believe this is bad.

However, it is very easy to let our attention and affection gravitate solely towards those aspects rather than the simple, humble and profound message of God becoming one of us…”Immanuel”

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Waiting with Anticipation

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I love the Advent season.  As a child I simply loved the festivities that accompanied the beginning of December.  My family would decorate our house with lights, put up the family Christmas tree and begin rehearsals for our church children’s pageant.  I remember also our Advent calendar, mostly because of the small chocolates one would discover upon opening the tiny windows.  I must confess that one year I was apparently very anxious for the arrival of Christmas day and decided to open (and eat) the entire month of December!

As an adult I still love those holiday traditions.  However, the season of Advent represents far more to me now than a daily calendar.  As I read through Enuma Okoro’s book Silence and Other Surprising Invitations of Advent, I am encouraged to fully enter into these first advent stories.  I find myself in constant reflection during Advent.  It provides an opportunity to look back on the year that was and bring everything before God.  It also provides an opportunity to look ahead to what could be and bring to God our hopes and dreams.

What has been significant for my wife Lauretta and I during our marriage is how we relate different to each character based upon the season of our life.  For the first five years of marriage, the story of Elizabeth resonated deeply for us.  We read in Luke 1 that Elizabeth and her husband Zechariah were childless and, I would imagine, constantly in prayer for God’s will for their future family.  Though the years hurried along seemingly without an answer, they maintained their faithfulness towards each other and the service of the Lord.

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I vividly remember one year ago while celebrating our first Advent season at our new church here in Paris, Lauretta and I lit the candle for Hope.  It had been our prayer and hope to start a family and we entered into Advent waiting upon the Lord in anxiety.

One year later we anxiously await the arrival of our twin boys and now appreciate even more Mary’s Advent story.  Luke’s narrative continues with the startling news of Mary’s, rather unexpected, pregnancy.  This divine plan radically changed her life and for 9 months I imagine Mary pondering what her life would be like.  I am sure that any soon-to-be parents have similar thoughts such as these:  Am I ready?  Will I be a good parent?  What will this child be like?

Lauretta and I find ourselves immersed in this Advent story as our waiting continues, but now with excitement, anticipation, and a little anxiety mixed in!

“My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior!” - Luke1: 47

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Poll question: Advent?

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Over the past few years I have noticed a resurgence of liturgy and Church calendar celebrations, especially in nontraditional type churches.

Our church follows the Church Calendar seasonally and a liturgical calendar weekly.

Lent (before Easter) and Advent (before Christmas) have been two major inroads for churches and youth ministries to participate in “traditional” forms of worship and celebration.

So, my question is simply…in your church or ministry, do you intentionally celebrate Advent?

The Advent Experience

Over the past three weeks, I lead our youth and young adults on an experience of the advent and incarnation.  One week we set up Advent Stations that focussed around the theme of Waiting.  Each room we had was created to encounter the meaning of advent and provide sacred space to pause, be still and receive from God.  It was a great evening and the first of its kind for many of the participants at my new church.  Many reflected on how the change of pace was difficult and uncomfortable at first, but proved to be necessary.

I have discovered the unique paradox that while the French are known to spend quality time enjoying life, they (in particular the Parisians) suffer from the frenetic and often chaotic busyness of everyday life.  Students attend school from 8h to 18h (8am to 6pm) including Saturdays for some.  The amount of work far surpasses what my former New York (high-achiever) students were given.

This time of season it becomes all the more important to focus on what truly matters.

We also had a discussion on Consumerism and Christimas and contrasted the images and feelings associated with the many creches in the city with reactions to the environment surrounding the Galeries Lafayette (world-famous mall in Paris)

This video was a helpful reminder for us to center on the true meaning and significance of Christmas

Last week our young adults gathered for an evening of Carols and Stories.

The ideas was to read in community the Christmas Story, beginning from the Old Testament and concluding with Revelation.  In many ways the Christmas story is the apex of the Story of God and so we read, reflected and lit candles for each section read.

Inbetween the sections we sang familiar carols and hymns that seem appropriated for the theme.  Here is the structure and breakdown of the evening.

The Prophecies:

Isaiah 9: 1-7 Michah 5: 1-5 Isaiah 60: 1-6 Micah 4:1-8 Isaiah 40:1-11 Isaiah 42: 1-9

O Come O Come Emmanuel

O Little Town of Bethlehem

John the Baptist

Luke 1: 5-25 Luke 1: 57-80 Mark 1: 1-8

*the image above is Leonardo da vinci’s “annuniciation”

The Annunciations of Jesus

Luke 1: 26-38 Matthew 1:18-25 Luke 1: 39-56

Silent Night

O Holy Night

*the imago above is “the birth of the Christ child” located in the sanctuary at The American Church in Paris

The Nativity

Matthew 1: 18-25 Luke 2: 1-20 Matthew 2: 1-12

Angels We Have Heard on High

The First Noel

The Incarnation

John 1:1-18 Philippians 2: 1-12 Colossians 1: 15-20

O Come, All Ye Faithful

Joy to the World

The Return

Matthew 24: 36-44 Revelation 22: 12-21

Savior of the Nations,

Come Revelation Song

The Advent Candles

First Candle

Color: Purple
Theme: Hope
First Sunday in Advent

Second Candle

Color: Purple
Theme: Love
Second Sunday in Advent

Third Candle

Color: Purple or pink Theme: Joy
Third Sunday in Advent

Fourth Candle

Color: Purple
Theme: Peace
Fourth Sunday in Advent

*Fifth Candle

Color: White Theme: Christ Christmas Day

I also provided a handout to be used at home following the 4th Sunday of Advent.  It is condensed version of the Christmas story, meant to be read the seven days leading up to Christmas.

One-Week Meditation

Day 1     Isaiah 9:1-7; Isaiah 42:1-9

Isaiah 7:14;   Micah 5:2

Day 2 Luke 1

Day 3 Matt 1:18-25

Day 4 Luke 2:1-20

Day 5 Matt 2:1-12

Day 6 Luke 2:21-40

Day 7 John 1:1-14

These three weeks helped our group enter into the story personally and spiritually and connect with the significance of the Incarnation.  It also helped the group to appreciate even more why we can and should celebrate on Christmas Day.

The long-awaited Savior has come.  Hope, Peace, Joy, and Love are here and avaialbe.  This is good news (gospel) of great joy for all people…for unto us a Child is Born.

The week leading up to Christmas then intentionally is full of parties.  We went caroling down the Champs-Elysees this past weekend, all-church staff party last night, youth leaders party Wednesday night, and have a fun-filled Christmas party for the Youth on Sunday and Young Adults on Tuesdays consisting of a gift swap, karaoke caroling, cookie decorating contest, A Charlie Brown Christmas, a really wild version of the 12 days of Christmas, and so on.

*I must admit that it has been a pleasant transition to be in a city and culture that celebrates Christmas with great enthusiasm.  Unlike my home in NY, you are allowed to say Merry Christmas and display nativities in public.


A Liter of Light

In this season of Advent we light candles each Sunday to reflect on Christ’s light and love and to remind us to walk in the light of the Lord.

This video is a great illustration of how light can pierce the darkness and transform lives.

I wish the world had more tangible ways of illustrating and demonstrating this kind of love.

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The Word Became Flesh

1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was with God in the beginning. 3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. 4 In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. 5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.

6 There was a man sent from God whose name was John. 7 He came as a witness to testify concerning that light, so that through him all might believe. 8 He himself was not the light; he came only as a witness to the light.

9 The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. 10 He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. 11 He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. 12 Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—13 children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband’s will, but born of God.

14 The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.

“Christian” Christmas movies?

I do find it a bit ironic (and sad) that the vast majority of Christmas movies have little or nothing to do with the birth of Christ, which is supposed to be the reason for celebration.

Of course, you and I know that our society has made the season of Christmas into a cultural phenomenon and all the glitz and glamor seem to get in the way of the actual mystery and majesty of the Incarnation.

I was listening to the radio today and am always surprised how many “Christian” Christmas songs are being played.  The theology behind these songs are rich and profound.  I will write more about this later.  But as I scroll through my TV to rent Christmas movies, the opposite takes place.  Almost every movie or TV special is about Santa Claus, Frosty, and those little cute elves.

Now, I actually like those movies quite a bit and watch them every year.  But I am still amazed at the lack of movies that at least try to depict or portray the true spirit of the holiday.

Christmas can be a time for culture to focus on a change of heart.   Very few movies actually tell the story of Christmas, but some tell the story of a person who lacks the Christmas spirit, goes through a crisis, and comes to realize the importance of love, generosity, faith, and family.

From the Advent Companion, “It appears that amid all the commercialization of the season and all the pressures and confusion, the human heart still hears the call of the prophet, ‘Prepare the way of the Lord.”

Here are a few of those movies I can think of, but I would love for you to add to this list.  Each year, I make a point to watch and promote these movies as a way of allowing contemporary media to help ground me in the true Spirit of Christ.

1)  The Nativity Story

2) A Charlie Brown Christmas

3) It’s a Wonderful Life

4) A Christmas Carol

5) Miracle on 34th Street

Can you think of others that have blessed you this year or in years past?

excerpt from A Charlie Brown Christmas

Honoring the Virgin Mary

Today, December 8th, Catholics around the world celebrate the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

Read Luke 1:26-38.

Growing up, I always believed the Immaculate Conception to refer to the virgin birth of Jesus.  In order to be a spotless, blameless, and sinless sacrifice on humanity’s behalf, he had to be removed from the stain of original sin and therefore (out of theologically necessity) needed to not be biologically connected with Joseph (since all men transferred sin according to tradition).

However, Catholics take this notion one step further and believe that Mary was conceived without sin.  “Mary embodies all at once what God wills for his intelligent creation.  But there remains a difference between Mary and us. We are healed of the wounds of sin.  Mary never contracted them.  We suffer the aftereffects of sin. Mary rejoices in God her Savior.”  – Magnificat December 8th Advent Companion

Catholic tradition holds that, in order for Mary to be an acceptable “mother of God”, she needed to be free from sin at the time of Jesus’ birth and afterwards.

A common prayer is this “You allowed no stain of Adam’s sin to touch the Virgin Mary.  Full of grace, she was to be a worthy mother of your Son.”

Mary serves as our “pattern of holiness” and the Annunciation (which was the announcement by the archangel Gabriel to the Virgin Mary that she would become the mother of Jesus Christ the Son of God.), becomes the culmination of her miraculous conception and special calling.

More to the point:  Catholics believe Mary was specifically called and chosen at conception to birth the Son of God and therefore was given extra grace to protect her from all sin.  She now intercedes on behalf of Christians for their purity and freedom from sin.

An interesting meditation from 1890 by John Henry Newman that shed even more light into the theology behind the immaculate conception is as follows:

“What is the highest, the rarest, the choicest prerogative of Mary?  It is that she was without sin.  When a woman in the crowd cried out to our Lord, “Blessed is the womb that bore Thee!” he answered, “More blessed are they who hear the Word of God and keep it.”  Those words were fulfilled in Mary.  She was filled with grace in order to be the Mother of God. But it was a higher gift than her maternity to be thus sanctified and thus pure.  Our Lord indeed would not have become her son unless he had first sanctified her; but still, the greater blessedness was to have that perfect sanctification.”

I could list a whole hosts of prayers offered by Catholics to the Blessed Virgin Mary asking her to help them live a sinless life and so forth.

Growing up Protestant I always had a very negative view of Mary (or more specifically of how I believe Catholics worshiped her).

All of my friends would have to regularly recite the “Hail Mary” and I thought it was some sort of blasphemous prayer and borderline idolatry.

Hail Mary, full of grace.
Our Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God,
pray for us sinners,
now and at the hour of our death.
Amen.


*Interesting to note, that the angel Gabriel offers those same praises to Mary upon his visit to her.

Her Magnificat (known also as Mary’s Song) found in Luke 1:46-55 is an amazingly profound, historical, and theological prayer…especially for a young Jewish girl!

Over the years, I have grown in deep appreciation and respect for Catholicism (the heritage, liturgy, saints, theology, authors, etc..) Living and serving in New York, many close friends and neighbors are committed Catholics and my friendship with them has shed much light.

I personally do not agree with everything they may or may hold doctrinally dear, nor follow all the practices, rites, and rituals, but I have gained much wisdom and insight.

One of them has been a newfound respect for Mary.

By venerating Mary (not worshipping), a few blessings and graces have occurred in my thinking and faith.

In the words of Brian McLaren, by honoring and celebrating Mary, “We come more fully to know who we are: simple humans, like Mary, called upon to bear Christ in our bodies, through our lives, to our world.”

I have realized, like Brian, just how impoverished my own Protestant faith and heritage is with its exclusively male focus.  The incarnation and immaculate conception (of Christ) is a mysterious and beautiful story that “magnifies” the value of women, erases the shame of Eve, makes visible the importance of spiritual receptivity, and celebrates the richness and feracity of humble, simple submission.

For full disclosure, unlike some of my Catholic friends, I do not pray to Mary or have statues of her, although I understand and appreciate now more than before why they do.

Afterall, it was the Spirit of God that testified through Gabriel, through Mary, and through Elizabeth that Mary was in fact highly favored; that the Lord was with her, she was blessed, and all generations will call her blessed because the Mighty One has done great things for her.

Though I do not worship her, I do however look to her as an amazing example of faith and honor her in my heart. I praise God for her obedience, example, faith, and miraculous life of being in the will of God.  I would imagine that Mary’s story and prayer echoed through the mind of her son, when he was at the cross and submitted to the will of God and, like his mother, prayed, “Not my will, but yours be done.”

And Mary said, My soul doth magnify the Lord,

And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour.

“I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.”

May we all follow in the example of Mary and have the same obedience and faith this Advent season.

Awakening Advent

Over the past few years I have recently learned to appreciate the season of Advent.  I grew up in church traditions that typically did not follow the church calendar nor celebrate Advent.

Though my particular church does not formally follow Advent, I have taken it upon myself to prepare for the Christmas season spiritually through the blessing of the Advent season.

We are also doing a new series at youth group on Advent, based from a number of Lectionary studies and advent devotions.

What I appreciate so much about Advent is the rich and vast history of it in the Christian church.  When we celebrate Advent we are tapping into a long line of believers and church history.  Additionally, millions of Christians around the world and across denominational lines join together in preparing hearts for Christ’s arrival.  It joins Orthodox, Protestant, and Catholic Christians together in anticipation and celebration on what should unite us all….Jesus Christ.

In the busyness and chaos of the holiday season, I find myself more and more in need of reflection and solitude.  Advent readings help me focus on why Christ came and to prepare my own heart daily for his arrival and presence.

So often I would wait until the day before Christmas, when all the buying and wrapping and parties were over to really slow down and focus on what really matters-why we celebrate Christmas.

Advent provides time and space each day (or least on the Sundays leading up to Christmas) to do this intentionally.

We are encouraging our teens this year through a number of ways.  I would love to hear what you do to help prepare your students for the incarnation of Christ.

1)  We are doing a 4-part series on Advent:  Hope, The Way, Joy, and Peace

2) We have an advent calendar in our youth room

3) We will have an advent wreath and lighting of a candle for each week

4) We will have a nativity scene, without the Christ child, and will place him in the manger after our Christmas Eve service

5) We will give each student an Advent devotional

6)  We adopt a family in need for Christmas, purchase gifts and visit them to decorate a tree and sing carols

7)  We encourage our students to ask for one less gift or $$ instead and to support a charity, sponsor a child, or give to someone in need

Last year we watched the movie “The Nativity Story” during the last Sunday school before Christmas.  Might do that again  The Nativity Story

*Please share ideas and resources you have used!

Here are some resources to help awaken advent in your youth ministry or church

Advent Lectionary studies from Barefoot

Magnificat Advent companion

Advent Wreath

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The First Candle (The Candle of Prophecy/Hope)

The first candle is sometimes called the candle of prophecy because it symbolizes the promises the prophets delivered as messages from God; promises that foretold Christ’s birth. Others consider the candle to be a symbol of the hope we have in Christ and so it is called the Hope candle.

The Second Candle (The Candle of the Way)

The second candle shows that Christ is the Way. Christians are lost in sin and Christ is the Light sent into the world to show them the way out of darkness.

The Third Candle (The Candle of Joy)

The third candle indicates that the only lasting Joy to be found in life on earth is through Christ. All other joy is fleeting and does not last.

The Fourth Candle (The Candle of Peace)

The fourth candle reminds that Jesus comes to bring Peace to both the world and to people’s hearts. Without Christ there is no peace in this world.

The Fifth Candle (The Christ Candle or Christmas Candle)

family reflections: unity in diversity

(picture from a Thanksgiving card I found)

Here is the caption:

“It was Thanksgiving, so no one brought up why Aunt Ruth has a “sleepover” friend named Rhonda, or cousin Bill’s pending trial, or why Grandpa Willard is one the computer well past midnight every night (with the door locked), or little Stephen’s fondness for Broadway show tunes, or his sister Aunette’s 32-year old boyfriend, or Uncle Hank’s almost unhealthy fascination with high heels, or just what in the world that awful scratching noise is up in Grandma Geraldin and Grandpa Burt’s attic…..”

Every family looks “normal” in pictures, but there is always a caption right?

This past weekend I spent the thanksgiving holiday back home with my family.  It has been a number of years since I have had the blessing of doing this and I enjoyed every moment.

I realize how blessed I am to have a loving, supportive family.  I also realize for many people out there, that is not the reality.  Close to 70% of my students at church come from broken homes.  To these students, being part of the “family of God” already has prepackaged negative connotations.  It is hard for them to imagine what a healthy family looks like.  I chose to not use the word “normal” because I no longer think anyone of us can describe the characteristics or attributes of that term.  What is normal for you may be different for me.  No longer does “normal” imply 2 parents (man and wife) first marriage, 2.5 children, stay a home mom, etc….

However, within the diversity of what a family looks like “healthy” is something we all long for and desire.  I believe that is God’s dream as well…for “healthy” families who are committed to each other and united in love.

I love my family.  They know me more deeply and intimately than anyone else.  They understand my complexity and quarks, and tolerate me anyways!

My family  has walked with and beside me during my darkness and difficult moments.  My family is thoughtful, caring, generous with what they have (including their time), genuinely enjoy spending time together.

There are members of my family who disagree with me in general on a lot of things, and specifically in areas of politics, social issues, and some theological ideas.  We have discussions, debates, and may even flat-out disagree or argue on matters that seem very important to us as individuals.

Yet..we come to the table (literally and symbolically and love is there.  I was reminded of that this Thanksgiving as we sat around our table, disagreements aside as we piled on the turkey and trimmings.

Despite our differences, there is acceptance, embrace, warmth, and collective memories when we gather around the table.

As we approach the beginning of Advent this year, I am also reminded of the unity we have when we gather in the presence of Christ, for at t the table of  our Lord the same can happen.

Christ’s sacrifice for all made it possible. His continued presence affirms and enables that.

Yet, it has become striking to me how, so often, the family of God does not function or act like a healthy family.

It does look like so many broken and dysfunctional families out there and I think we would all agree that is not the ideal, desire, or dream.

Understandably, we argue and may disagree over different viewpoints of theology, politics, or various social agendas.

Unfortunately, within at the least the Protestant segment of Christianity,  churches split all the time over particular theological interpretations, political disagreements, the role of women in ministry, the place of homosexuals in church, etc.. etc… etc… (the list really does go on and on and on…..)

Individuals churches and church boards divide over finances, carpet color, budge cuts, vision, mission, the church van, what time to have services, whether or not to have service on Christmas….(how sad and ironic is that one?)

Honestly, any and every thing can, and has, been a reason for people to leave their churches, abandon the Church, or for churches to split and (within our the Protestant heritage), form newer denominations.

In today’s Christianity, factions exist but not family.

Family can and will disagree and often argue over things, but at the end of the day you are still a family.  You are committed to each other and have each others’ back.  In a family one would do anything for your sister, brother, mother, father, niece nephew, cousin, and (sometimes) distant relative like that crazy uncle or aunt everyone seems to have.

Why do we do this?

Because you are all related. Blood unifies, bonds, and holds you together no matter what, through thick and thin.  They say “blood is thicker than water”.  And family blood should be thicker than any differences.

How much more should the blood of Christ unify Christians?

I am constantly amazed at how petty issues distract and divide us from what should bring us together.

Why can churches of different denominations partner together?  Why such a divide between Catholics and Protestants?  Do we not name the same Christ?

Yes, I realize there are differences.  I have studied the history of them at length.  But at the end of the day, Jesus’ life, ministry, resurrection, and hope of redemption should be what we are all known for.

Can we come together at Christ’s table and celebrate the reality of his presence?   Can we allow doctrine such as The Apostle’s Creed to unite us, and not some narrow particular viewpoints to intentionally separate.  Why be known so much for our distinctives (which ultimately lead to exclusivity and division), when God’s hope for the world is for his children to be known in unifying love and person of Christ.

I have many differences from people at my church.  Some of cultural, some are probably more age-related than anything else.  There are lifestyle disagreements, political differences, and I would imagine theological variances. but as at sat there at our Thanksgiving Eve service I looked around and what I saw was family.  I view each member of my church and youth group as family.  We are all imperfect, flawed, and have quarks.  Be we can and should accept and love one another as God loves his children and Christ his church.

Besides my personal family, I am grateful and thankful for my church family for teaching me the value and beauty of unity in spite of differences.